Most adult children of toxic parents grow up feeling tremendous confusion about what love means and how it’s supposed to feel. Their parents did extremely unloving things to them in the name of love. They came to understand love as something chaotic, dramatic, confusing, and often painful—something they had to give up their own dreams and desires for. Obviously, that’s not what love is all about.
Loving behavior doesn’t grind you down, keep you off balance, or create feelings of self-hatred. Love doesn’t hurt, it feels good. Loving behavior nourishes your emotional well-being. When someone is being loving to you, you feel accepted, cared for, valued, and respected. Genuine love creates feelings of warmth, pleasure, safety, stability, and inner peace."
|Marginalized people:||I really love diversity in media! I always have since I was a kid and I so rarely got to see people like me in my favorite books and shows! Lets work towards having more diversity in media. There's literally no downside or reason not to!|
|Straight white boy:||THIS MAKES ME REALLY ANGRY FOR SOME REASON! LET ME EXPLAIN YOU A THING.|